You should go back to Canada on your situation. You will have big advantage over your husband in Canada, especially on divocreFirst of all, face this issue and be strong. I knew a single mom who has 3 kids in here.She very happliy enjoy her life in here. You don't need worry about that.
Come back to Canada. Tell him that family should be always united. If you still want to keep this marriage, you should ask him to break up with his gf. If you don't want that guy any more, go to get a lawyer to protect you and your kids' rights. Basically he should pay all the supporting fee.
Don't be scared and lose self-confident.
-rabbitjessy(QQ);
2005-4-5{511}(#4576@28)
if we have to divorce, i won't like to take 1 cent from him. i will support my kids and myself. i can't believe he will leave us because we have a very very good relationship. i don't need his money if he want to go.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4578@28)
don't be silly. he should pay for his betray.
-icicle(icicle);
2005-4-5(#4580@28)
I bet you won't say that any more ,after you meet this kind of situation.Sometimes it's easy said than done. :P
You are a young pretty baby girl, you didn't really take this issue seriously. It's really hurt when you are in that situation. I went through, I think that it really sucks!
-rabbitjessy(QQ);
2005-4-5{222}(#4600@28)
:-( I understand what you thought, maybe I'm just a strong girl, too strong as quoted by some ppl...anyway, I still think love has many way out, set him free is one way, and true love will come back to you.
-labelle(㊣完美的海盗);
2005-4-5(#4606@28)
don't assume she is younger than you by just looking at some pictures.....
-hmh(H&M);
2005-4-5(#4682@28)
You might be right. However, I do assume that she is younger than me.^_^ She still wear pink ,I already gave up pink after my 30 birthday.
-rabbitjessy(QQ);
2005-4-5(#4704@28)
xi xi, I am very subjective. But you are really cute, I do like ur pink skirt. I wish I can wear that kind of clothe again
-rabbitjessy(QQ);
2005-4-6(#4734@28)
Some people think that taking money from people who betray is very shameful. However,it's not the issue for diginity. It's your legal right. The supporting fee isn't for you ,more for your kids. On the other hand, life is very crucial sometimes. Money is one of life shelter. You never know what is going to happen in life.
Anyway, money isn't the issue right now. It seems you are still in love with him. So come back to Canada. Find a job and live with him to slove the problem. I don't know what's your background. It's not so hard to get job recently.
-rabbitjessy(QQ);
2005-4-5{484}(#4599@28)
strongly support. that's what you are supposed to do pieceheart. before you tell you husband that you have known the truth, think through all the things and all the possibile consequences and be ready for them.
-icicle(icicle);
2005-4-5(#4579@28)
right, 4 nacknames on my busband's MSN list. i'm sure that's her.
for example, the 4 names are: luoboyang, luobo-yang, luobo8, luoluo.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4598@28)
if only for technical discussing, he doesn't need pick up so many her nacknames. in addition, my busband has a secret MSN account using his firstname with her last name. i found it in the notebook by default.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4604@28)
tell you truth, he lists his all email accounts in outlook, both of us can go to his any account in our family cumputer without type in passward. i thought he never hide anything to me.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4614@28)
i am sure there are something wrong with her husband. she is too innocent already, don't push her go farer. if possible, tell her how to stop it...
-icicle(icicle);
2005-4-5(#4616@28)
If a husband goes out to meet another woman each week for some reasons, then what's the reason? That's the problem is. Find the real reason, and stay with him, do not sepreate.
-luoboyang(萝卜秧);
2005-4-5(#4620@28)
good girl...
-icicle(icicle);
2005-4-5(#4621@28)
actually, they met together in a class.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4624@28)
he added her 4 different accounts. only 6-7 names on his list and she has 4! his this real name account only for family.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4617@28)
my husband never chat on internet
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4628@28)
now i know the key of your happy marriage
-icicle(icicle);
2005-4-5(#4594@28)
he changed that 1 hour ago, i can't log in anymore.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4601@28)
It seems he always browse Rolia
-malcolmxu(字者);
2005-4-5(#4602@28)
no, he never come here.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4609@28)
u should get some sleep now,it's so late in China.
-caba(天蝎蝴蝶);
2005-4-5(#4605@28)
i can't sleep tonight.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5(#4608@28)
I know it's hard,but just try,I bet your kids dont wanna see a sad,sleepless" panda" mom. The only thing u can do is talk to your hubby directly .
-caba(天蝎蝴蝶);
2005-4-5(#4612@28)
if you can tell her how to talk to her hubby, maybe helpful for her sleep
-icicle(icicle);
2005-4-5(#4618@28)
in our plan, we will stay in china for 6 more months, i really don't know i should go to canada now or stay in china.i'm sure if we live together, he won't play so free. i know he loves our family . but we just arrived china a few days ago.
-pieceheart(pieceheart);
2005-4-5{125}(#4633@28)