Topic: It is true in Canada you can't find a good Chinese man, as a BF or as a Husband. Because they care most about money, less about the quality of life, about you. @佛州华人论坛:佛州枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Florida

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / It is true in Canada you can't find a good Chinese man, as a BF or as a Husband. Because they care most about money, less about the quality of life, about you.All they want is a Western degreed, well paid, tender and excellent girl for GF or for wife. They don't know they should pursue what they don't worth -weekend0801tor(weekend); 2002-1-13 {151} (#332978@0)

Not Really......There are always every type of man/woman everywhere! -babyface(Tracy); 2002-1-13 (#333172@0)

People in toronto tend to be more material ( have to be ??), It's true! -babyface(Tracy); 2002-1-14 (#333848@0)

It's not true. For example, I am an exception -littlebrother(弟弟); 2002-1-13 (#333185@0)
无病呻吟 + 恶人先告状。谁不知道中国女士出来以后择偶范围比在国内大了许多。 -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-13 (#333340@0)

hehe -hooligan(牛虻); 2002-1-13 (#333377@0)
I wouldn't call a drunker a good man. and Gabriel, I wish what you said is true. But this is not what I have seen. -weekend0801tor(weekend); 2002-1-13 (#333415@0)

一个原国内IT女士,来这里一直在超市打工,,可以轻而易举地拒掉几个华人追求者(都是有不错工作的),而找上一个白人,在多伦多豪华之处同住一房. -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-13 (#333443@0)

如果是倒过来,连自己的老婆都受不住! -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-13 (#333445@0)
所以男士的最后的救命稻草是在这里有了一些基础后回国找. -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-13 (#333447@0)
Did you ask why the girl refuse the Chinese men with good jobs? Do you think job means everything? You think the girl chose the white man and live with him is because of his money?What's the difference between the white man's money and the Chinese men's money? You actually think money determines everything?! I feel sorry for you because you will never get true love. -weekend0801tor(weekend); 2002-1-15 {191} (#335648@0)

So she likes the white color, doesn't she? Well that I will never get true love is better than I got screwed up by some dirty-minded Chinese women. -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-15 (#335881@0)

之所以一些women到这之后就变得抢手，因为：1这里中国男女比例(指available)失调；2这里男的都不怎么情愿回国找因相隔太远难以了解成本也高；3女的在这里只要“想开了”是很容易“溶入社会”的。(其实这些人在国内作为女人并没有很多的吸引力，无论在年龄相貌或综合素质)鉴于此，DX们要在这找不到合适的，千万不要凑合, 回去找。找wife可是比移民还重要的事啊，为什么就不能比移民多花些精力呢 -albert2001(再来一次); 2002-1-16 {114} (#335906@0)

有理.中国男士必须有骨气有主见.不然被人贱卖了还在网上遭骂.所以除非这里天上掉馅饼(掉黄的和掉白的可能性差不多),一定要抱回去找的准备.我朋友早就对这里的女移民有戒心.如果有中国女孩跟他接近,他会怀疑,"既然,
她可以找白的,为什么来套我,必然是别有用心,有些见不的当地人的事情来找
我帮,再把我蹬了."虽然他做得过分,不过小心无大过.

虽然说回去找也可能不安全.不过就算被耍了,全当帮一人到北美,死后修阴德.
而这里的女孩没有你也死不了. -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-16 {290} (#335917@0)
The relationship between Chinese men and Chinese women here is something like China and Japan. Although the skin color is the same and they share many things, they can never come together. -neal(chipmunk); 2002-1-16 (#335931@0)
4. Some Chinese men are of low dignity. They are doing everything to please these women and finally spoil them and make them forget who they are. -neal(chipmunk); 2002-1-16 (#335933@0)

What kind of man would you call a good man? -drunker(酒囊饭袋); 2002-1-13 (#333348@0)
这位姑娘,不必失望,给我封短信,咱们聊聊 -singlemale29(真爱无敌); 2002-1-14 (#333711@0)
I don't buy what you are saying in your message.It may be some that kind of boys , but it is not like what you said in your messge.
There are still a lot good gentlemen in this world, especially in Toronto, such as myself.
Maybe you didn't meet such kind gentleman.
I am sure you will have an opportunity in the future.

good luck.

xiaodong -xdyun999(tiger); 2002-1-15 {302} (#335548@0)

Thanks for your good wish. I have been in Canada for five years.First three years in Ottawa, last two years in toronto, I didn't see even a shadow of a good man(I mean single man, not the ones already married back in China and come here, these are normal persons). Can you tell me why you call yourself a good man? -weekend0801tor(weekend); 2002-1-15 {252} (#335652@0)

Why don't think about the reason of yourself? You are perfect and Chinese men are evil. Why come here and discuss with the guys you despise. Do not waste your time as well as ours. -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-16 (#335886@0)

Gabriel, I am symphasize for you because you sound like girls refuse you before they see you. Well I can tell you my story. -weekend0801tor(weekend); 2002-1-16 {2270} (#336327@0)

What help means is related with ability. -weekend0801tor(weekend); 2002-1-17 {886} (#337410@0)

你觉得这男士白在加拿大活了那么多年.不过DATING如果没有什么情趣, 只是吃饭,是比较痛苦.我知道一个主,在美国加拿大呆了7年还不会开车.结果老婆跟一个多伦多的司机跑了.HEHE. -xavier(Gabriel); 2002-1-17 (#338011@0)

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