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枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 来加一年，刚刚探亲回国给母亲（60岁）送终（肺癌），极度悲痛，迷茫，突然打算再生个孩子，又怕此种心境下会失去理智。没有母亲可以商量了，盼有好心人指明方向.....
-yunboo(运波儿);
2001-7-29
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对。
-winterblue(winterblue);
2001-7-29
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Thank you for giving me courage! Winterblue is a beautiful name.
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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60岁是年轻了一点，很为你们难过。生个小孩也不错啊，不过你心情不好，会不会影响小孩啊？建议6个月后重新考虑再实行。Good Luck.
-pigpapa(猪爸爸);
2001-7-29
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Thank you for your kindness, Pigpapa. Acturally, I like pig cartoons very much and the first baby book I read to my first child ten year's ago is ''Xiao Zhu Pang Pang". Your name makes me thinking of happy things.
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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怀孕的时候心情不好，对胎儿的成长不太好。或者等一段时间，待心情好一些，再考虑。伤心的时候，多想一想将来，可能会好一些。祝 好！
-birdswimming(feifei);
2001-7-29
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不会不会的，只要开始做母亲，生活一切的重心会改变，你会生活在希望中。
-cherry126(尚影);
2001-7-29
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I agree with you now, kind cherry.
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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I think I can recover soon under so much careness from friends like you. I will take care. Birds swimming in the pond/lake/sea/creek, a charming landscape!
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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节哀顺变。孩子的事可以再考虑。不过我是一直认为一个孩子不够。父母是跟半世的，而兄弟姐妹可以跟一世。
-beibei(beibei);
2001-7-29
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这话说得真有智慧。真好。
-aibei(在土一方);
2001-7-29
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Same feeling with you, kind Aibei
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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I have the same feeling with Aibei reading your words. and I am thinking to have a third baby few years later to let them accompany each other in their whole life. Thanks kind BEIBEI!
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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You are welcome. :) 我也准备多要两个孩子呢。
-beibei(beibei);
2001-8-6
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这话让我又想父母又想哥哥,眼泪都要出来了.
-guest:;
2001-8-2
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多来这儿吧。这儿的人特善良。
-yunboo(运波儿);
2001-8-3
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生个孩子吧，因为我们需要亲人。
-cherry126(尚影);
2001-7-29
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I will accept your advice and go to see the doctor tonight
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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还是生个小孩吧，对你的儿子来说，多了一个伴，小孩的性格也会好一些的，家里热闹一点，心情也会好一点。
-chr(nice);
2001-7-30
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I strongly agree with you, nice Nice! It is true that my son always performs bad charactor--feel lonely, anger very easily. This is what I have been worried for 10 years. But how could you know that? (Curious)
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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However, I have seen quite a few families who have big brother and very young brother/sister and they two usually don't get along very well. It's unlike big sister and little......
-guest:;
2001-8-2
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u r right, so we want twin.heihei.
-yunboo(运波儿);
2001-8-2
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生一个吧，其实你的岁数也容不得太多忧郁，干什么都可以往后推推，可对于一个女人，生孩子并不是什么时候都可以。其实等你怀孕，就会有另外一种心情，可能分散你的注意力在其他事上。也许是个好的开始。其实你的岁数也容不得太多忧郁，干什么都可以往后推推，可对于一个女人，生孩子并不是什么时候都可以。其实等你怀孕，就会有另外一种心情，可能分散你的注意力在其他事上。也许是个好的开始。一个孩子真的很孤单，我们体会不到他的世界里欠缺的东西。，如果能对你有帮助，可以给我发email.
-suantou(蒜头mm);
2001-7-30
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thank you very much
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-7-30
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感谢所有朋友对我的关心。 谢谢朋友们！
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-7-30
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小飞狭和运波是一个人吗？
-suantou(蒜头mm);
2001-7-31
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LP and LG
-beibei(beibei);
2001-7-31
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You are right, smart BEIBEI!
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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I am so sorry to hear that. My mother is 75 now, and is still in China. Really, I read your post with tears. May you good luck.
-bloor(不老);
2001-7-31
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Thank you, kind Bloor. Long Live to your mum and don't forget to see her often. There is an old saying that even an person aged eighty want a mum alive. Treasure your lucky. "Bu Lao" to all your family!
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2001-8-2
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我们daycare有个一岁的小孩,经常她十五六岁的哥哥来接她,两个人特别亲.在这里,生养孩子都不是难事,让你的儿子体会到手足情,这好极了.
-guest:螃蟹;
2001-8-3
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希望时间会冲淡一切，人生是不能尽如人意的，祝愿你一家平安喜乐。
-jade(双鱼);
2001-8-6
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当然生，还用问。
-guest:Cot;
2001-8-6
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嘿嘿，如果能找到孩子他爸，我是真想多生几个，三个最好，这样他们自己可以组成一个Team,而且年龄差别不能太大，北美给我最大的冲击就是这里养孩子是一种快乐，而不象国内是一种压力，而且，家庭生活是北美太重要的生活组成部分。大家不觉得中国的孩子以后没有手足之情是件很可怕的，违背自然规律的事吗？会引发什么样的问题真的很难预料。
其实我是很怕生孩子的，鬼门关呀，不过现在居然越来越有这样的愿望。
-cherry126(尚影);
2001-8-6
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\\hand
-beibei(beibei);
2001-8-6
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终于找到知音了！我身边的朋友都觉得两个孩子最好，可我就想要三个，两个小男孩，最小一个最好是女孩，这样，就有两个哥哥宠着她，保护她了！
除了这个，还想要两只大狗狗，一窝猫猫，当然，前提是带大大的前后花园的house,呵呵，这是我的奋斗目标。*_*
-guest:;
2001-8-8
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Ha,like your dream, I want 2 girls,1 boy, I have a daughter, today I talked with a lovely western child in a mall, her like to be with me, I almost want to cry when we said goodbye. must take my daughter to here!
-cherry126(尚影);
2001-8-8
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I want 2 boys, and 1 girl. I miss my son so much. :(
-beibei(beibei);
2001-8-8
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你儿子也在国内，周命人，唉！
-cherry126(尚影);
2001-8-8
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不过明年就可以来了。:)
-beibei(beibei);
2001-8-8
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Envy!
-cherry126(尚影);
2001-8-8
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"一切都会过去" 对是否要第二个孩子的犹豫是什么呢？如果经济条件许可的话，这绝对是一个good idea。
-sleepcat(迷途羔yang);
2001-8-6
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还有什么比一个新生命的出生更让人感到希望的呢?生吧,不过要注意你的情绪,如果继续伤心,对胎儿是有影响的.
-vivianwang(纤云);
2001-8-6
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我有和你类似的经历
-mixit(和易);
2001-8-7
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