This topic has been archived. It cannot be replied.
-
枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / when a man says "friend first", does he means "friend only"?
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-1-17
(#1565409@0)
-
他要求男女平等先，也许。我猜的：）
-jade(简单生活);
2004-1-17
{10}
(#1565441@0)
-
that is what we do, guessing. It would might imple that marriage and family is not so important in his life. I don't know if I am too judgemental.
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-1-17
(#1565449@0)
-
也许吧，看你是怎样的人，也提得起，放得下就行了。如果是放不下的性格，就保留一点自己的感情吧，现在这个世道，投入任何东西都是有风险的。
-jade(简单生活);
2004-1-17
{84}
(#1565457@0)
-
a simple and efficient way: ask him directly. "Do you mean.....?" if you dont want to feel frustrated or irritated all the time in a relationship, maybe you would try open up the communication pipeline.
-beentaken(tasteless);
2004-1-17
(#1565464@0)
-
呵呵，说清楚了就明白自己应该抱怎样的心态了。
-jade(简单生活);
2004-1-17
(#1565472@0)
-
:)
-beentaken(tasteless);
2004-1-17
(#1565507@0)
-
advice taken, I will see if he will be offended
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-1-17
(#1565486@0)
-
you are not gonna argue with him or accuse him, right? :) If he got offended by a peaceful communication (not argument or the like) , you could close it as a done deal, leaving him and moving on. :)
-beentaken(tasteless);
2004-1-17
(#1565516@0)
-
just let you know, he is not offended. You are right, it is easier just to ask.
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-1-18
(#1566845@0)
-
Great, good luck.
-beentaken(tasteless);
2004-1-18
(#1566946@0)
-
I think it means that he did not fall in love with you at his first look. I think men should be more straightforward and respect you in a very careful way when he really loves you.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2004-1-18
(#1567058@0)
-
他没有那意思吧。FRIENDSFIRST就是先交朋友看看。而且楼主已经有了答案了。
-wade(wade);
2004-1-18
(#1567070@0)
-
I am sorry if I misunderstood.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2004-1-18
(#1567110@0)
-
I dont' know this guy, but I don't want to waste time to start something on somebody who does not pursue the same goal in life.
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-1-18
(#1567340@0)
-
Sorry for misunderstanding you. You'd better share your ideas with him to see if he shares the same life goal with you. Wish you the best luck!
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2004-1-18
(#1567526@0)
-
How come you want him to fall in love with you if you guys even don't know each other?
-casbah(casbah);
2004-1-18
(#1567658@0)
-
who said I wanted him to fall in love with me? I just don't want to waste my time to know somebody who is not even interested to start a family life. Internet dating, not something to suggest here.
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-1-19
(#1568286@0)
-
看过这篇文章，但感觉太虚幻了。不现实。
-moonbaby(鬼小子);
2004-1-20
(#1569507@0)