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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 愤怒的丈夫寻求公正
-missingwondering(打抱不平);
2003-12-7
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哪有公正可言，这种事多伦多多了去了，想开点。分开吧，孩子总比生活再现在这种环境好。
-ttl(有羊肉没馍了);
2003-12-7
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网上是口水飞溅的地方，法院是所谓公正的所在。处理问题的方式直接影响结果。
-mssg(mssg);
2003-12-7
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谢谢你的提醒。看来还是不要生孩子的好，免得一旦离婚对孩子的伤害太大
-ppgg(聪明小子㊣);
2003-12-7
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only the man of "中国男人" can have rifgt to say "I love you"!!!!!!!!! if you are poor, no any lady, especially your wife, wants to hear!
-allrichest(ifilucky);
2003-12-7
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这些事情没有什么"公正"可言, 就看最后是理智战胜激情, 还是激情战胜理智. 当人选择了激情之后, 也就同时选择了RISK, 你很难阻止她TAKE RISK, 但你能启发她的理智, 实在不行, 也只有由她去了, 有些事情, 越想保持, 越保持不住.
-noproblem(大可以);
2003-12-7
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“妻子(她): 感性, 跳跃思维, 爱幻想, 脾气温和有点犟, 不愿与他多交流。”夫妻之间不论发生什么，最重要的是要多交流，如果互相不能谈开，怎么会有心心相印的感觉。可能虽然丈夫很努力了，可却并不真正知道妻子想要什么，好好谈谈吧！要是不能挽回，她又不想改变，就随她去吧！激情过后会是什么呢？
-xktp(mening);
2003-12-7
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I remember a DX here said one thing before which i have to agree: sometime, it's good to experience more and satisfy some curiousity before getting married.
-babyface(︽※︾天真时代︽※︾);
2003-12-7
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在国内男人花，在这里女人花。很多女人到了这里就变了，无情无义甚至无耻，天要下雨，娘要嫁人，随它去吧。记住，经济基础决定上层建筑。
-york_region(york_region);
2003-12-7
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呵呵，你最好别这么比，这么一比麻烦 了，什么国内国外。。。。
-rachelh(rachel);
2003-12-7
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Hey, don't worry, you are very safe and your wife will not leave you at this moment.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2003-12-7
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Though you wife is even older than my elder sister, I can still tell you something regarding my understanding of women.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2003-12-7
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If a woman does not love you anymore, she will not tell you her secret at all. But your wife still shares her secret with you, which means she still regards you as her only lover in this world at this moment.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2003-12-7
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But you should be careful and do not only rely on the long-term relationship between you.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2003-12-7
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Can I give you some suggestion? Do not work so hard any more even on Saturday. You should spend some time on some fun with your wife.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2003-12-7
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My last suggestion: do not complain your wife but try to understand her. You will be great, man, be confident of yourself and smile at your wife and your life. Try to make yourself full of fun. Good luck to you.
-yangtse(Yangtse);
2003-12-7
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1.先不要愤怒 2.爱情不存在公正 3.冷静 4. 不要责怪（对方和自己）5. 静观其变，同时反省一下婚姻出了什么问题（肯定不是一如之寒）6. 冷静之后沟通 ....如果还不行，参考《失恋自救法》
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-Oh, my heart);
2003-12-7
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感动饺子你每次的与人精辟答疑, 但这次却不对他的味. 长期的平淡夫妻生活固然埋有伏笔, 但来加后的环境绝对为主要缘由.他现在冷静并平和多了.《失恋自救法》很有帮助喔.
-missingwondering(打抱不平);
2003-12-7
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你先别生气,了解一下妻子的想法是必要的.
-judy_an(绿腰之舞);
2003-12-7
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不管是什么原因, 夫妻感情的破裂不用这么愤怒, 平和一些想. 本着尊重对方的感情/生活方式和自己的感受冷静处理. 实际上, 有时做个好朋友会比做夫妻更合适些. 对于孩子, 我想说一个不能幸福的家庭其实对孩子的伤害更大, 孩子9-10岁以后可以懂得很多了, 不同形式的家庭都可以带给他(她)们好的环境和快乐.
本意并不是想劝你做什么, 也愿每个家庭都可以幸福美满. 万一有问题, 也没必要上火, 当作一件正常的事认真处理就好了.
-chenl2001(chenl2001);
2003-12-7
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谢谢.
-missingwondering(打抱不平);
2003-12-7
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