Topic: JJMM，你们当中有和白人结婚的吗? 正在抉择ing, 请帮忙出个主意 @佛州华人论坛:佛州枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Florida

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / JJMM，你们当中有和白人结婚的吗? 正在抉择ing, 请帮忙出个主意认识一个白人GG和一个中国GG，中国GG心地比较善良，但缺点激情；白人GG充满激情，但又怕不太可靠。真不知该选哪一个，又不想托着，那样对不起人家。请有经验的JM帮忙出个主意，谢谢先。 -kilogirl(千斤小姐); 2003-12-3 {172} (#1497050@0)

当然选中国GG。激情总会回归到平淡中的。 -littleboat(大小姐); 2003-12-3 (#1497059@0)
中国GG。因为我只想结一次婚。 -ruby92(桃逃在线); 2003-12-3 (#1497061@0)
如果你认为婚后的生活只要激情就行了,那就选老外不过据我的统计,这样超凡脱俗的人<3% -life_is_so_short(人生苦"短"); 2003-12-3 (#1497072@0)

不想拖着，就对不起自己？好象白人都不怎么地吧？激情有了，消失了就立刻离婚。中国GG也不怎么地。没有激情，结婚后更没有了。很实际的。 -johnszy(Daoker); 2003-12-3 (#1497077@0)

of course, choose white guy if the ball in your hand. -hucan(whocan); 2003-12-3 (#1497086@0)
这还要问？？知道八戒是乍死的吗？一个字，笨！中国ＧＧ做老公，外国ＧＧ做情人！ -baygirl(冰淇凌); 2003-12-3 (#1497092@0)

你这么的不确定还是不着急结婚吧，或者说离婚姻还远着呢。如果你同时在和两个人交往，先决定和其中一个继续交往了解下去再说吧 -dropoutinmiami(饺子-Oh, my heart); 2003-12-3 (#1497168@0)

这话有理。 -jade(雪地里的糖葫芦); 2003-12-3 (#1497177@0)
是不急于结婚，但也不想脚踏两只船，更不想让中国GG带绿帽 :)谢谢JJMM的回答(也许还有GGDD :)

因为圣诞节快到了，不知道该去谁的 Christmas Party :( -kilogirl(千斤小姐); 2003-12-3 {85} (#1497202@0)

连恋爱关系还没确定，不能算带绿帽子吧。。。至于去圣诞晚会，哪个好玩去哪个喽：） -dropoutinmiami(饺子-Oh, my heart); 2003-12-3 (#1497212@0)
戴绿帽的关键是,你和其中哪一位上过床吗?如果是, 那就应该有LOYALTY,如果都没有，那就同时交往． -eeming(eeming); 2003-12-3 (#1497243@0)

Kick out both of them. U r hesitant, that means U do not like and love either of them very much. -funtender(Funtender); 2003-12-3 (#1497255@0)
搞清楚2个GG是否真的都想躯你先，然后看看是不是ball在你手 -lakeshore(lakeshore); 2003-12-4 (#1497405@0)

到这来问不是明摆着多数让你选中国GG吗？我觉得其实洋人挺好的，如果你比较独立的话；话说回来中国人并不比洋人可靠，如果你不独立的话，找个中国人也不保准 -rachelh(rachel); 2003-12-4 (#1497600@0)

你鸭的有种亮亮相,让咱知道你是啥样的人.别老是躲在墙后说胡话! -anewgoodman(aNewGoodMan); 2003-12-5 (#1499438@0)

实话实说，不觉得就中国男人负责任，哪的人不是人，中国人出格的多着呢，姐夫吗不用担心，俺们属于那种丑女穷汉型的，嘻嘻，就赚个放心 -rachelh(rachel); 2003-12-8 (#1505499@0)

其实，不必过早决定。适当引入竞争机制是明智的。他们会比赛看谁更对你好。 -whowillloveme(ChineseDoll); 2003-12-5 (#1500170@0)

白人也有各种各样的，但从人种来判断，实在太幼稚了 -perspective(毛毛); 2003-12-5 (#1500179@0)
你在这里问？我们能说对不起同胞的话吗？强烈支持中国哥哥！！！ -music(冰姬); 2003-12-6 (#1502204@0)
My suggestion is, live (sleep) with that white guy for ,,,for a few months, and see if he is still interested in you, if he does, then follow him. if he doesn't, back to the Chinese GG and tell him the truth. if he doesn't care, it means he really loves u. then follow him. if he does care, it means he doesn't love u that much. In this case, u are lucky cause u know both of them don't really love u. -ryan_lee(); 2003-12-8 {347} (#1505458@0)

Hehe, cool, 有点象博弈论.不过也可以换一下脑筋让中国GG做第一回合男主角,看看会有什么结果?:-) -secretgarden(跳跳蓝莓); 2003-12-8 (#1505654@0)

thanks.. but it wouldn't work if you switch the order...Because the white guy won't care if you ever slept with others or not, as long as u can sleep with him. Chinese guy not only want your body, but your mind as well. -ryan_lee(); 2003-12-8 {165} (#1505695@0)

cool -lakeshore(lakeshore); 2003-12-8 (#1505719@0)
no, the correct way to say is white guy don't care if you have slept with Chinese guy before, but the Chinese guy will care if you slept with a white guy, right? talking about body and mind, i think both men want that. -secretgarden(跳跳蓝莓); 2003-12-8 (#1505863@0)

Yes... u r right :-) for me, virgin only -ryan_lee(); 2003-12-9 (#1506058@0)
I think marriage takes caring, understanding and ...marriage takes caring, understanding and communication. Culture difference is a big problem. Can u communication with the white guy as good as u can do with a chinese guy? Body language like making love can not replace your oral communication :-)

Black and White have been living in this society for such a long time. Is it common to see a white marry a black? If you put some thinking into it, it's not hard to figure out why. Chinese girl like dreaming, no matter good or bad. -ryan_lee(); 2003-12-9 {482} (#1506069@0)

My suggestion to the Chinese GG is ...If she really did that, no matter u love her or not, give her up right away :-) -ryan_lee(); 2003-12-8 {79} (#1505713@0)

@Florida