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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / what's marriage for? A man with decent job and a man treat you by his heart, which one will you chose if they can't have both.my girlfriend wants terminate the 7 years relationship because I still can not find a descent job so far even I tried hard. She has the right to chose someoneelse who can give her better living quality, it's just hard for me to accept it in a sudden. She agreed that I am a good man, but she thought another man with good income can make her more happy even if he's not nice to her. She said she need find a strong support before she gets elder. BTW, she is 24. If she's right, then let her go.
-formula2(liberty);
2003-8-11
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婚姻的关键是双方愿意为对方负责任，你的EX-GF已经不愿意了，
这是很正常的事，再找个好了。
-fxid(外地民工模样的人);
2003-8-11
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个人理解，婚姻就是找个人一块儿过日子。从这个角度出发去理解吧。
-lmx(流氓兔);
2003-8-11
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初恋时（十七岁），她还不懂爱情。
-rollor(Rollor);
2003-8-11
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哪里看出是初恋？
-contact(Contact);
2003-8-11
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没什么根据。反正那时候她不懂。
-rollor(Rollor);
2003-8-11
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Let her go and feel no sad for her. If you earn 100K a year, she still wants to find someone who earns 200K a year.
-friendch(Friendch);
2003-8-11
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当然是let her go. 其实你能不能找到一份像样的工作已经不重要了，when it is over, it's over.当然是let her go. 其实你能不能找到一份像样的工作已经不重要了，when it is over, it's over. 也许7年来的各种危险信号你一直忽略了，以为约会了7年就能让女人免俗？
其实俗的理由，不俗的理由都是借口。俗的理由嘛，钱，车，房，身份，地位什么的。 不俗的理由嘛：为了父母，为了兄弟，为了姐妹，甚至为了祖国什么的。听说过一个很好的理由：“我现在又见了一个，他哪儿都不如你，你看，你什么都有了，他什么都没有，你就不能让他一下”
-tztz(真爽);
2003-8-11
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There is already a third person. What in hell makes you still want to stay in? Love is a fantasy world, but marriage is for real day to day life. So wake up and move on. The one who laughs the last laughs the best.
-mutantx(阿吉);
2003-8-11
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人家都声称爱的是另一个人了,你何必呢?就算心碎至死,也要争一口气吧?
-semaphore(心碎无声);
2003-8-11
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说句实话, 爱听不爱听随你: 除了放手你好像没有其他选择了, 哀莫大于此!
-fox69(fox);
2003-8-11
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严重附和
-tztz(真爽);
2003-8-11
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any baby?
-zippo(颠倒。。。。);
2003-8-11
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楼主说的是gf, 恐怕还没有到提孩子的问题的时候吧
-tztz(真爽);
2003-8-11
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她不珍惜你对她的这份感情，不值得你爱。
-atease(轻松一下);
2003-8-11
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严重赞同
-tztz(真爽);
2003-8-12
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每个人的生命只有一次！每个人都有追求美好生活的权利！她没有必要把时间浪费在等待上。btw从来就没听说女孩子会喜欢“good man". Good luck, young man!
-m30(m30);
2003-8-11
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你也犯贱，这种人也理，真吃撑了，她离开你，对你来说是运气，让她去吧，你能活更加好的
-oceandeep(北极熊·望海);
2003-8-11
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这话说的太过分了。合则聚，不合则离，只有合适不合适，萝卜白菜各有所爱
-tztz(真爽);
2003-8-11
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Please do not talk this topic again, Ok? you are TOO NAIVE!
-hopeisland(john);
2003-8-12
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何为：good man ? 对她好就是？应该包括 income 的吧？你呢，顶多就是 kind man 啦。Don't make dream to that girl. She does not fit you! Try your best, become "good man", then many girls will catch you !
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2003-8-12
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势利的女人，见鬼去吧
-youngerbrother(http:fun.to/hongwei);
2003-8-12
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信不信？ 照你这个对女性敌视的态度，永远打光棍。
-luobogao(.);
2003-8-12
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"爱不是永久, 只是曾经拥有". 你如果爱过她而她也爱过你, 就够了.
-xz730000(笑一笑，十年少);
2003-8-12
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不求天长地久，只求曾经拥有。。。
-jijiniuniu(miya);
2003-8-12
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If she is still in love with you, she would not care whether you are rich like that. Love could fade in 7 years. It seems that you have nothing to do but letting her go.
-rockywei(落基山);
2003-8-12
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感觉你的确是个好人。女朋友言明是为钱离开，你半句坏话没有。你是个真正的绅士。However，女人是需要崇拜她的男人的，七年都找不到一份好工作，她给你的时间也不少了，留下她也不会开心。Good luck to you in the future.
-youneverknow(叮噹);
2003-8-12
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哀莫过于心死!她24,你可能也还不"老".让她去吧,男人应自重.
-toromont(大漠孤煙);
2003-8-12
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我总结得出一个经验教训：如果感觉自己不是个强人的话，一旦谈上恋爱要尽快求婚。结了婚以后，很少女的会提出分手的，即使是对丈夫的无能感到很不满。
-ppgg(聪明小子㊣);
2003-8-12
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嘿嘿, 这招可太勉强, 一不小心头上发绿. 忠贞不三
-zhongzhenbusan(zhongzhenbusan);
2003-8-12
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