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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 最近DATING一个白人男子，几番见面后，大家感觉很好。可是他最近突然说NO RUSH。我也同意TAKE SOME TIME。 但他有两个星期没有约我， 只是每天都打电话给我， 电话里我们聊得也很好。请DX指点一下，他到底怎么想的？我该如何应对？
-bitterapple();
2003-7-24
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这还不简单，如果真是你喜欢的，你主动约他呀。
-pyramid(树木);
2003-7-24
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I don't want to push anything.
-bitterapple(sweet now);
2003-7-24
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Doesn't look good. 'No rush' is a common excuse.
-rudy2000(rudy2000);
2003-7-24
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如果男方说慢慢来, 那就有问题了. 建议您 一颗红心, 两种准备吧.
-wind999(Wind);
2003-7-26
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Nothing different between the whites and Chinese on this issue. Am I right?
-oceandeep(北极熊·重新做人);
2003-7-24
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不知多大了，如果是50,60也算正常了，老人家说说话也就挺好了。如果20-30就不对了吧，1个礼拜都不解决1次，算了吧，以后也没幸福
-coolest(cooler);
2003-7-24
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:DDD
-iliveyou(两只猫猫 往事终随枫);
2003-7-24
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饺子呢? :-)
-babyface(★夏日的风已吹过。。);
2003-7-24
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我也不是恋爱专家啊：-）
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-抓紧时间过夏天);
2003-7-24
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那你是什么专家呢?...........嘿嘿。
-babyface(★夏日的风已吹过。。);
2003-7-24
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当然是旅游专家，FB专家阿.(也许不包括恋爱:P)
-swanson(10号崂山道士);
2003-7-24
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Do you mean she is a 看风景专家?
-company(company);
2003-7-24
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keep the ball rolling until he pops the question
-four_no_elephant(Cervus Davidianus);
2003-7-24
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This is what I am doing.
-bitterapple();
2003-7-24
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at least you 2 can become bosom buddies
-four_no_elephant(Cervus Davidianus);
2003-7-26
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不太正常.他不约你,你正好可以有时间看看别的风景.
-fairytale(天韵);
2003-7-24
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This is what I am doing too.
-bitterapple();
2003-7-24
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一起看风景时，邂逅到多浪漫呀：）
-yihan(逸涵);
2003-7-24
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好像不是好的征兆，也许他又有了其它人选在进行比较？
-melodymeng(梅络笛·梦);
2003-7-24
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I guess so as well.
-bitterapple(sweet now);
2003-7-24
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还是找个中国人吧。虽然那个方面差点，可是要从长计议还是划算。老外嘴甜，可不当饭吃
-wellcum(杨委);
2003-7-24
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别瞎说，看看人家饺子，对饺子好，对饺子的爹妈也好，关键是得找对了人。。。
-yihan(逸涵);
2003-7-24
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Actually, I don't have a preference of white guy or Chinese guy.If I feel right, I will go for it. I agree that Chinese guy has more advantages in a long term, but I just happened to meet a white guy this time. Now what I am doing is trying to forget about him, I don't want to put more energy in it to avoid getting hurt later.
-bitterapple(sweet now);
2003-7-24
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Enjoy yourself whenever you can!
-m30(m30);
2003-7-24
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谁说中国人那方面差,专家研究表明,LADY CARES HOW HARD U R, NOT HOW LONG U R , IN TERMS OF HARDNESS CHINESE HAVE THE ADVANTEGE.
-worm-2(虫二);
2003-8-2
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呵呵，这是我惯用的一招：愈擒故纵
-m30(m30);
2003-7-24
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how many you 擒?@@
-henhen(哼哼, 找工ing ^_^);
2003-7-24
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愈字是不是写错了，想了半天
-m30(m30);
2003-7-24
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欲
-lile601(lile601);
2003-7-24
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纵MM三千, M30只擒一个.
-fox69(fox);
2003-7-26
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MM是不是MAN MAN的意思，如果是妹妹，就不对了，M30姐姐又不是同性恋！
-sofia(小白兔);
2003-7-26
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他不是臭豆腐吗， 怎么成了姐姐？
-lazycal(飞鹰战士);
2003-7-26
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臭豆腐是MJS：（
-sofia(小白兔);
2003-7-26
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可能是male man的意思
-m30(m30);
2003-7-26
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这就对拉，这才符合JJ的胃口么！！！
-sofia(小白兔);
2003-7-26
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No,no,no,大学时我是韩信点兵，多多宜善
-m30(m30);
2003-7-26
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JJ这样是对的，女孩子就是要矜持一点的。
-sofia(小白兔);
2003-7-24
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如果你自己有其他人选，可以去约其他人的。他的“NO RUSH”可以示任何理由，你
是猜不出的。
-wade(wade);
2003-7-24
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"NO RUSH" 就是"感觉不到位"的意思. 如果没有更合适的出现,你们的关系曲线将继续窄幅波动.........
-rom(红蚂蚁);
2003-7-24
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既然是"NO RUSH"，也就是说"没有动力"。估计是另有dating进行，但未能确定，所以不见面，只牵线，play kite。你是候补委员。
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2003-7-26
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Makes sense. He wants to see me again. I feel dating is interesting and has so much fun when we play the game, but who will be the winner?
-bitterapple(sweet now);
2003-7-29
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Be prepared....
-leafwind(leafinwind);
2003-7-29
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没人知道他怎么想的,你也不必知道. 至于你该如何应对, 要是很急的话就随便应对一下, 要是不怎么着急, 就再慢慢想想吧.
-chuzhongtian(楚中天);
2003-7-26
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if he were a chinese guy, you would care him so much?
-hopeisland(john);
2003-7-26
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老外对东方人的审美观鱼我们不同.
-wind999(Wind);
2003-7-27
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人家说话听不懂, 不知道人家怎么想的, 要上网听意见, 还感觉很好, 你这DATING累不累 ? 建议您, 算了吧, 还是找个中国人吧.( "NO RUSH" 就是" 没意思 ")
-huimin(huimin);
2003-7-29
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" "NO RUSH" 的意思就是 " 没意思 ". 所以不见面，只牵线. 至于你该如何应对: 快乐小路, wind999的意见: 你是候补委员, 一颗红心, 两种准备吧. (Dating is NOT interesting and has NO fun when you play the game)
-huimin(huimin);
2003-7-29
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Why not? I am dating several at the same time. I won't hang up on one tree. I am dating both Chinese and Caucason, but nothing seriouse for now, just date. This guy is only one of them.
-bitterapple(sweet now);
2003-7-30
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No Rush ==> Keep On, Not the 1st case
-lzalf(蓝色深水区);
2003-7-30
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以静制动. 有打电话就够了, 是不是你真的心里太 RUSH 了? 以后要多跟你请教和老外交往的经验.
-worm-2(虫二);
2003-8-2
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I agree, I have dated over 10 guys, everyone has something special, but only this one has a little difference...
-bitterapple(sweet now);
2003-8-4
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人不风流枉少年, 想小妹妹如此游刃有余,实在让人佩服!
-worm-2(虫二);
2003-8-4
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