Topic: What should I do? @佛州华人论坛:佛州枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Florida

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / What should I do? -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-4-13 {1037} (#1138021@0)

If a guy do that, that mean he don't love you any more. -earthcitizen(地球公民); 2003-4-13 (#1138027@0)

You'd better don't spend any more time on worrying the marriage,If you continue to do that, you will find you'll 越陷越深. I do have similar experience before....My suggestion is spending your time to find what is the root cause of your crisis, then make a plan, set up a schedule to resolve the issue. If you find you can not resolve it at last, then you'd better to make the decision to end the marriage. -earthcitizen(地球公民); 2003-4-13 {344} (#1138045@0)

you needn't divorce, try to find a boyfriend who live in the same city with you. Maybe he can listen to your story and give you comfort. -xslu(steven); 2003-4-13 (#1138029@0)

Are you a good listener? I desparately need some comfort from someone may be like you???? -bchung(chung); 2003-5-27 (#1207435@0)

I believe god also blesses those who do not go to church. -wind999(Wind); 2003-7-13 (#1283590@0)

in this case, do nothing, keep quiet for a couple of months, and even do not phone him and mail him, he will contact to you. otherwise, game is over. -qdwater(water); 2003-4-13 (#1138215@0)
When I can finally think... -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-4-13 {580} (#1138903@0)

good luck. I believe in miracle, b/c it happened to me! -secretgarden(跳跳蓝莓); 2003-4-13 (#1138966@0)

Thanks, secretgarden. I feel like you are a nice girl...god bless you. -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-4-18 (#1148536@0)

calm down and actYou need more evidence to justify your guess. Anyway, time will tell. But, be good to yourself, find someone to talk to when you are lonely. There are many others who are in the similar situation with you. They are expecting you too. -countrymusic(CountryMusiker); 2003-4-20 {233} (#1148593@0)
how long is your marriage? not sure your talking about your hubby or b/f -oedipussy(oedipussy); 2003-4-20 (#1149663@0)

I won't be so upset if he's just my boyfriend. -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-4-21 (#1149963@0)

I read something recently -- -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-5-25 {1158} (#1204170@0)

You live a life for yourself firstwe all love someone in this world and we all make commitment to something or someone. but the first and foremost is to live a life without regret - that's to live for yourself first. I am sure you know this already. Sometimes such obvious things are forgotten. Just a friendly reminder. -jack8(jack a friend); 2003-6-18 {288} (#1246414@0)

Yeah, you are right. And that's not so tough as I have imagined... -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-6-29 (#1262895@0)

Don't blame God, don't blame anyone -bchung(chung); 2003-6-30 {1825} (#1264801@0)

Thanks...but I still counldn't believe that I really have any sin...and I tried to pray to God too... -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-7-5 {610} (#1271141@0)

Your reaction/response to what you've gone through is totally understandable -bchung(chung); 2003-7-8 {2291} (#1275344@0)

You are very persuasive. And really thanks for praying for me. I actually believe in praying. May God bless you too. -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-7-12 (#1283459@0)

I can understand you completely!! -astigmatism(astigmatism); 2003-7-8 {1478} (#1276487@0)

Try to delete all the email, throw away letter and photos, erase her completely from your life and memory. And look forward...I found that the most effective way is to forget and to believe that you could have a happy life even without her.

I used to think that I would be really miserable without him. But after going through all of these, I start to perfer staying alone by myself...I know that I can have a better and happier life of my own...and I want to strive for it. When I'm busy planning for my next step, I start to gradually forget my past... -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-7-12 {434} (#1283543@0)

Don't focus on divorce too much, since you still cherish your marriage and will to communicate with your husband. If he is too busy to share 2 -safina(Rise of Nations); 2003-7-12 {871} (#1283522@0)

Hi, you are amazing. Happy and confident -- that's exactly what I want to be, and what I'm striving for. Thanks for your encouragement...I AM getting better...and I'm so lucky that I have a very good friend who always encourages me like that...
And I'm happy today since I can meet an amazing person like you on the web! -lonelyghost(lonely ghost); 2003-7-13 {187} (#1283565@0)

It 's my pleasure! See, You did survive! No matter you are married, single or divorced, be independent, spiritual and financial. Try to be more flexible. Live alone but not lonely!---A sweet dream!If you have desires and dreams, turn them true! -safina(Rise of Nations); 2003-7-13 {47} (#1283618@0)

Stop asking yourself why because there is no right and wrong in the world of emotion. When love is gone, it is gone. Nobody can do anything about it. Face it and get over it. -wind999(Wind); 2003-7-13 (#1283583@0)
Divorce is not your destiny, it is your CHOICE. -fairytale(天韵); 2003-7-15 (#1287732@0)

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