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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 哎，你们再难过，也没有我难过！
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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脚踩两头船，拿你做备份，吃着碗里的，留着锅里的。
-lmx(流氓兔);
2003-3-14
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你说我残部残？
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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应该是惨不惨？
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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她只不过是无法将“分手”两个字对你说出口，因为她知道你并没有错，也对她很好，但是她心里的选择是已经很清楚的了。
-lmx(流氓兔);
2003-3-14
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(1) She was having a personal and emotional conversation with her X . And (2) She was helping her X to come to Canada. Not reasonable? I think it's reasonable.The one that's being unreasonable is the boyfriend here...
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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Objection.
-dundas888(登达寺);
2003-3-14
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Reason please?
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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未婚团聚 means coming to Canada for marrige. I don't think it is reasonable to offer your X this kind of help (or favour).
-dundas888(登达寺);
2003-3-14
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but it is true.
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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I notice that. But under no obligation that the marriage has to excute.
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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oops, execute.
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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Let's speculate a little here. If she still loves him more than u, she would have arrange the phone call differently. If she still loves him more than u,she wouldn't beg your to stay. In cases like this, you're the one to help her make that final cut.
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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By leaving her, you're making it like a Christmas for her X. You're giving her no choice but to go back to her X.
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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你的标题很有趣，想起五几年参加“忆苦思甜“大会了，hoho....Ai~~在北美，想让爱不畸形很难么？因为很多人都或多或少有些心理畸形？~~
-mildkiller(M.K.);
2003-3-14
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你在说谁啊？
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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北美的人有了问题很难找到可以私下倾诉的人, 所以网上这种事情就显的多一些...
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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上个世纪就听说21世纪是精神病的世纪.
-redbird(redbird);
2003-3-14
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听哪个精神病说的?
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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hehe,瞧你的ID:)
-redbird(redbird);
2003-3-14
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你想说什么? 我知道你这个丫头机灵古怪的很, 一不小心就可能上你的当.....@@
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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你是不是也和我一样这样读#1087932: "听哪个精神病说的? -decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士); "
-redbird(redbird);
2003-3-14
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at least you have 50% chance once, but now you don't
-falcon(令狐葱);
2003-3-14
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俺是觉得他不用努力了。只有50%,不要也罢。
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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:-O
-falcon(令狐葱);
2003-3-14
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这些故事里面，你确实是最郁闷的。不知道还有更郁闷的没有？@_@
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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我....
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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今天忆苦思甜，来，说说看。
-lilyba(sunshine困惑不懂装懂);
2003-3-14
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我就不让大家和我一起郁闷了..而且我真有了心事,情场失意, 总还可以回家和太太唠叨唠叨, 她也总是安慰我,鼓励我..所以我才一直坚持下来了....
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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你情场失意和俺ss唠叨？老大，现在俺最崇拜俺ss~~~
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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哦, 那你SS现在最崇拜我, 她确实佩服我百折不挠的精神.... :-P
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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老大，要不你再崇拜我一把？来个死循环？
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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我当然崇拜你了...就是还没找好理由... :-D
-decentboy(曾经的帝国骑士);
2003-3-14
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崇拜她百挠不折不就成了,7!
-redbird(redbird);
2003-3-14
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我咋觉得你象是悟空在穷折腾, 你LP就象是如来看着你折腾.
-fox69(fox);
2003-3-14
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你的女友应该人不错，挺讲义气的。将来不会亏对于你。你应该感到欣慰才对。
-7states(战国);
2003-3-14
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but she already decided to be with her boy friend in China, how come you still think she will be with me and good to me in the future?
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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典型的小男孩心态，爱情英雄主义者（只有Yes和No，没有Patience），如果你真的爱她，还有什么不能包容的呢，何况别人办的只是未婚团聚。说你心态有问题，你还不爱听。
-lester(黑龙㊣Asylum HP:400);
2003-3-14
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不管怎么样，我没做错就好了。我对得起她。就当我们没有缘分了，好吧？
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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我觉得你没错
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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NO there's no right or wrong. Just who loves the other more. You don't really love her. Well, you love yourself more than you love her, to say the least....
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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And there's nothing wrong with that. some day, you may find your significant other, whom you love more than yourself. Crossing the fingers now.
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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how do you know that i love myself more than i love her? are you her friend? i am not blaming her,just expressing my poor experience to others and make myself more comfortable.
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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"making myself more comfortable".. at the same time, you're making her miserable... that says it, doesn't it?
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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让自己接受她的一切，不管她同时和别人“未婚团聚”还是“已婚同居”，都要让她开开心心。这你也许是你的爱情观，但不是每个人都同意的。还是会有人义无反顾离开一个脚踏２只船的人（不管男女）。
-dundas888(登达寺);
2003-3-14
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Dundas, my love philosophy is the same as yours. The only difference here is probably our definitions of "脚踏２只船的人". She is not making out with her X.
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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爱情的世界里，那有对错。不是我倚老卖老（嘿嘿，实际上也不老），很多事情，等你多经历一些，等你再大几岁，回头再看看，到时候再说吧，大家共同活到老，学到老吧！思维不要老是放在自己角度上，努力的试着真正的转换一下看看。
-lester(黑龙㊣Asylum HP:400);
2003-3-14
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And that's called "share"... which is taught at the daycares here...
-mocha(Hand Craft);
2003-3-14
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只有我这样的单纯的人才会遇到这样的故事。我想我会增加我的经历的和经验的。
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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真正的转换一下的话，下回这个男的也就学会脚踏２只船了。：）
-dundas888(登达寺);
2003-3-14
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我真地会了，但是我不会这样做的。
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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你也可以继续寻找，她也是你的back up么。
-lilyba(sunshine困惑不懂装懂);
2003-3-14
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好马不吃回头草。
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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我觉得问题的本质很简单---她到底是爱你还是爱他。如果这个问题都还没弄清楚，似乎是白浪费感情耽误工夫。
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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你说这句话让我怀疑你对她的爱到底有多少。既然这样我觉的你还是离开她吧，但不要在责怪她或怨恨她。没有人错也没有人对
-hss(香附子);
2003-3-14
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放不开. 爱过了, 不成, 就算了. 这是一段有始有终的爱情, 有什么惨的? 你至少留下了经历.
-taop(不锈钢青衫);
2003-3-14
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Thank you! you are our model, i will be as strong as you are in the future.
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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Leave. Keep love simple.
-lazyfrog(到底谁是土蛤蟆);
2003-3-14
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哥们!好样的!
-life_is_so_short(人生苦"短");
2003-3-14
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我没有选择的余地。
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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你做的没有错。当断不断，反受其乱。女人总是需要安慰的，男人也一样。但是如果你把你的安慰建立在一个不确定的基础上，然后再充当她的stand-by的安慰，这对双方甚至三方都不是什么好事情。
-pasu(InTheSky);
2003-3-14
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你说的太对了，这真是我所想的。自己在痛苦，都要离开。
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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没错，痛苦的心态下，两个人在一起也是扭曲的爱。离开但不要做绝，让她想清楚了有回头的机会。爱情就要自己爱惜自己。
-60years(浪人-击溃流窜的冬天);
2003-3-14
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Especially agree with the last sentence.
-mzhou(Wander);
2003-3-14
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我想应该是“爱情就要要爱惜对方，也要自己爱惜自己”。少了一样，就不能做盘爱情的好菜。
-rainrain(雨雨 水果蛀虫);
2003-3-14
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我给你们讲个更难过的吧.我家住81层,有一次停电了,我就爬楼梯,等爬到80层,突然想起来,我把钥匙落在门房了:)
-benbenbear(笨笨熊);
2003-3-14
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你是什么意思啊?
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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Wow, you have so many gfs.months ago, you say goodbye to one, now, it's another one.
-sweetsmile(巧笑嫣然);
2003-3-14
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Yeah! I think you are so right. ^_* (wo3 men2 mei2 you3 gao3 cuo4 ba? Xixi...............)
-romp(Romp);
2003-3-14
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Definitely. i checked history part. he is that guy whose ex-gf complained he is not gentle enough at rolia. And When he read that article. he decided to say byebye to her. :)
-sweetsmile(巧笑嫣然);
2003-3-14
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Oh................such a 'lucky' guy that ............
-romp(Romp);
2003-3-14
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My english is poor. So that should be "two" gf, not many.Say sorry to right-right.
-sweetsmile(巧笑嫣然);
2003-3-14
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Hehe, It is not ur English, it is your mathematics. So.......who knows the right answer..........
-romp(Romp);
2003-3-14
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:P
-sweetsmile(巧笑嫣然);
2003-3-14
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惨？你很幸运了！她在国内有未婚夫，还在这里不想你离开。如果她真嫁了你，估计你今后买帽子就不有挑绿色的了。
-dilbert(UCD);
2003-3-14
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is this your post?
-semaphore(巾帼不让须眉);
2003-3-14
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didn't you already break up with her?
-semaphore(巾帼不让须眉);
2003-3-14
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she asked me back with her, she always complained that i am 小气的人。so i sometimes that maybe i was wrong. after that i was with her again.
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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yes, since then i found something wrong.
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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So......I am wondering when will you be right_right? It seems you always found something wrong?
-romp(Romp);
2003-3-14
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i found myself right now, i said goodbye to her.. this is my only right decision i've ever made. Thank you!
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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Hehe, I found something wrong in my last sentence. But I can not correct it because you replied it. En..................maybe several months later, we will talk about u and ur GF again. I will be right here waiting. ^_*
-romp(Romp);
2003-3-14
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这种事我也遇到过一次,只不过主角是我一个很好的朋友(女的),她就是一脚踏两只船,还不让我揭发.前一个是名门之后,她拼命追人家,又怕人不要她;后一个是喜欢她的人,但长的丑点.整天她都用不同的谎言欺骗这两个人,后来她告诉我,她年龄也不小了,不想两手落空,即使前者不成,还有后者垫备.女人都想给自己留条后路,这种心态让传统观念很深的我太难接受,我非常看不起这种人,毅然和她断绝朋友关系.我知道现在社会大都女人都有这种自私的想法.对于这种人,理智应当战胜情感,没有什么后悔可言.
-wantsfan(枉思凡);
2003-3-14
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我做梦也不会想到，事情会到这种地步。虽然我年纪也有30了，但我以前的复杂的情和爱的经历还不是很多，这一次总算让我遇到了。江湖险恶啊！现在正赶上看“依天屠龙记“。
-right_right(你们说的太对了);
2003-3-14
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fuck her and dump her. give her a lesson
-lovesex(lovesex);
2003-3-14
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巨同意！！！这样的女人，就算最终你得到了，那么最后会被戴绿帽子的就是你了。
-yoyo_ying(yoyo);
2003-3-14
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这个女孩很真实，不错啊。。另外，你这样的情况好像不算最难过吧。。
-zippo(查无此人。。);
2003-3-14
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她爱的是国内的那个，但丢掉你又有点可惜，所以...水性扬花
-9604(眯眯眼);
2003-3-18
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