Topic: Does any body know if love and marriage are the same thing? if different, what is the difference? Thank you! @佛州华人论坛:佛州枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Florida

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / Does any body know if love and marriage are the same thing? if different, what is the difference? Thank you! -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852157@0)

love and marriage are different, marriage is a life form in that you can have sex with your the other half legally (in China about 20years ago, this is very important),so mostly, marriage is a relation,a bond in-between 2 people,while Love is mostly a feeling, a memory, a person you really missing, a song in your life forever. -fatboy(大胖墩儿厨); 2002-11-13 {126} (#852172@0)

你的解释太古典了：）现在同居是很正常的事，我认识的国内的单身但有朋友的且有条件同居的都住在一起，也会去彼此父母家串门，朋友们也都知道，仅仅差一个结婚登记。 -soaringpig(好奇的猪); 2002-11-13 (#852591@0)

Huge difference. -lmx(流氓兔); 2002-11-13 (#852175@0)
the difference is : marriege = love + commitment -hashbrown(我爱土豆); 2002-11-13 (#852269@0)

yes, it is. don't you see lots of couple get married without love -hashbrown(我爱土豆); 2002-11-13 (#852283@0)

我的女朋友,经常complain我要的是婚姻而不是她要的爱情和激情. 我真的不知道如何是好了, 有人能给点建议吗? 先谢了!!!! -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852404@0)

This song from the SitCom " Married with Children" can answer your question. "Love and Marriage" - By Frank Sinatra -chiwawa(笑倒江湖); 2002-11-13 {534} (#852468@0)
how old is your gf? -lilyba(Sunshine); 2002-11-13 (#852539@0)

佩服，佩服。女人这个年龄一般只想要婚姻了。那么你就给她激情吧，制造浪漫。不再提结婚这件事。赫赫，看她着急不着急。 -lilyba(Sunshine); 2002-11-13 (#852548@0)

好主意。不过GF说不定只是不想和他结婚而已。对不起了先 -hashbrown(我爱土豆); 2002-11-13 (#852563@0)
主意倒是不错,就看这位仁兄是否做得来, 浪漫可以制造出来,可这激情就不好说了...... -gotyagood(云的影子); 2002-11-13 (#852797@0)

Love is to give, forgive, understanding, expect no return, no reward. It's from your heart. This applies to your lover, friends, or stranger. You may love someone without mariage, but not vice verse. -1499728inc(bank); 2002-11-13 (#852632@0)

This is what my girl friend think.. But What you are saying is what i am doing now and also i didn't ask her to marry me. -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852666@0)

She agrees with me, so do u, then, what are you 2 arguing about? -1499728inc(bank); 2002-11-13 (#852716@0)

but she still complained that i don't give her " -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852729@0)

Anything to do with sex life? Talk to Sue Johnson at Sunday Night Sex show. -1499728inc(bank); 2002-11-13 (#852761@0)
i am good at sex. she never complained about that.She only complained that i alway like watching tv not chatting with her and going to play soccer on satureday, but playing with her. But i spared everyday but satureday for playing soccer. -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 {188} (#852776@0)
多点SURPRISE, 多安排点活动, 多点创意, 不要什么都是一成不变,.......愿提供具体建议...:) -dropoutinmiami(东北的饺子); 2002-11-13 (#852783@0)

i often take her to play,but weekdays. because of work. for example, going to enjoy leaves,seeing movies, excerizing,palying cards, and etc. -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852807@0)
what is your concrete suggestion? -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852808@0)
I want to live together with her, but she doesn't want to do that. She wants to live by herself and see each other everyday. She wants me to go to her place and return home after 11:00Pm. -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852818@0)

en...sounds more complicated than I expected. It might be that she is not ready for marriage yet... -dropoutinmiami(东北的饺子); 2002-11-13 (#852825@0)

she complained more about me than marriage. -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852831@0)

Make her cry, and then make her laugh........Then u got her! -babyface(★RAW RAW★); 2002-11-13 (#852868@0)

This is a very very good article. -xdyun999(NorthEastTiger); 2002-11-13 (#852873@0)

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