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You'd better wait until your husband finds a good job.

guest:一家之见

How old is your first kid now? If not too big, better wait for a while to have the second one.

As you said, you don't have much money and time. You will be much more constrained on money and time if you have a second one.

在物质上无条件地满足孩子当然不好，但是如果不能给孩子买些书，玩具，出去不能隔3叉5买麦当劳买点零食，总要提醒他/她那些东西很贵，小孩过地也不舒服。如果你现在的孩子是属于较舒服类，而且你也有精力和钱(每个月至少100多额外支出给小BB，如果请人看，更贵！！)，可以考虑要第二个。否则老大会受苦的。

Enjoy what you have now, but of course hope you can enjoy more without having to sacrifice the first kid somehow.

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枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 移民来加拿大，现在大家的情况都差不多，难！可时间飞逝，该不该再生孩子？请大家来讨论。 -guest:超生游击队; 2001-6-12 (#98723@0)

總是會苦一些 -guest:GG; 2001-6-12 (#98725@0)
we have no time to ........ -guest:no time; 2001-6-12 (#98740@0)

我也没时间，没钱，不知是不是该...... -guest:超生游击队; 2001-6-13 (#99309@0)

Then don't. It's not fair to the baby to have parent like this. -magnolia(辛夷); 2001-6-13 (#99628@0)

听你说的确实让人深省，其实这就是矛盾所在，谁知道以后的日子是好还是坏？就怕四十多岁的时候经济上好了，可。。。wwwww。不知道以前父母是怎样带大孩子的？ -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#99760@0)

You are so nice. I thought that you would punch me for what I've said. If so, I think it's fair for the baby to have a parent like you. If you above 35, do it ASAP. -magnolia(辛夷); 2001-6-13 (#99769@0)

为什么总让我选择，我是很苯的那种人。虽人未过三十，可想问题已经有些糊涂了。 -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#100071@0)

Are you serious? If so, it seems you have low self-esteem. My suggestion is to read self-help books for yourself. -magnolia(辛夷); 2001-6-13 (#100089@0)

explain it in simple word in china .though i had use词霸 i could not grasp what u exact mean .soory for my poor english. -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#100099@0)

其实要不要孩子是要自己拿主意的, -tomatoo(tomato); 2001-6-13 {182} (#100103@0)
想想就算别人出千个主意给你,但最后生他,养他的是你,没有人会帮得上你的忙.要生活的那个人是你.为何不让自己活的轻松一些呢!
不过如果是我的话,如果我没钱,没时间,我是绝对不会生小孩的.个人意见

能看的出来，你不会打无准备的仗。when u have little tomoto,我们可以多交流。谢谢。 -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#100115@0)

我正在等我种的tomato结果,其它的目前都不在考虑范围内! -tomatoo(tomato); 2001-6-13 (#100205@0)

Sorry I can't write in Chinese now. Would you mind go to / 枫下文萃/ 枫下拾英 to check my post- 发现母亲王东华 -? That's my thoughts about parenting. As to self-esteem...I'll write something later in Chinese. -magnolia(辛夷); 2001-6-13 (#100101@0)

go there now. -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#100109@0)
it is better than the article which i have read about what should i give to our children before.another discover is u came from beijing too,right? -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#100137@0)

have baby asap, now maybe you are reluctant, but 3y later you will wish you have already done it 3y ago -guest:; 2001-6-12 (#98760@0)

希望更多游击队员们来参加这场战斗讨论，哪怕给个声援也好！！！！ -guest:超生游击队; 2001-6-13 (#99305@0)

坚决再生一个！！！和和和。。。：）） -gogopuppy(snoopy); 2001-6-13 (#99382@0)

生不生，没有定式，但是做这个决定一定要对自己负责，对子女负责。 -bingle(bingle); 2001-6-13 (#99388@0)
Of course you should. The child will be happy in Canada. -pyramid(金字塔); 2001-6-13 (#99527@0)

所有你的帖子，都很积极向上，向你学习。是否你是一个成功的爸爸。 -guest:游击队; 2001-6-13 (#100076@0)

Will be in future. Birth control is unhuman policy in China, I believe. Why don't you give birth to many children. I remeber when some guys told their girls that he love her, he always request: "给我生一大堆小孩". -pyramid(金字塔); 2001-6-15 (#102073@0)

You'd better wait until your husband finds a good job. -guest:一家之见; 2001-6-13 {631} (#99709@0)
How old is your first kid now? If not too big, better wait for a while to have the second one.

As you said, you don't have much money and time. You will be much more constrained on money and time if you have a second one.

在物质上无条件地满足孩子当然不好，但是如果不能给孩子买些书，玩具，出去不能隔3叉5买麦当劳买点零食，总要提醒他/她那些东西很贵，小孩过地也不舒服。如果你现在的孩子是属于较舒服类，而且你也有精力和钱(每个月至少100多额外支出给小BB，如果请人看，更贵！！)，可以考虑要第二个。否则老大会受苦的。

Enjoy what you have now, but of course hope you can enjoy more without having to sacrifice the first kid somehow.
我个人认为，现在不应该生，连自己都过的不是太好，能给孩子什么呢，我想你也不是太老，应该在等几年。不过我想你自己心理已经有答案了，就是想得到支持，那算我白说，呵呵。 -pandora(Sarah); 2001-6-13 (#100265@0)

God. One of my main goals of immigration to Canada is to give birth to a lot of Children. Without it, I would rather stay in China. Don't hesitate to meet your future children. -heisiling(黑司令); 2001-6-15 (#102680@0)

hahaha... -suantou(蒜头mm); 2001-7-16 (#133745@0)

我觉得生好。我想家里热热闹闹的，可是又不敢，等于没说。 -together(together); 2001-7-16 (#133797@0)

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You'd better wait until your husband finds a good job.

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