it's all your choice gal.say NO to people don't love you, and leave room to say YES to people who do love you^^
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508373@0)
Love is blind...sometimes you just can't help it...if you can control your emotion, that means you donot really love him(her)...
-jesse_dd(紫飞鱼);
2012-5-11(#7508385@0)
well, you just don't trust me that love can be handled, it doesn't go to people who want it, it goes to people know how to have it^^
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508435@0)
Love is passion...passion is impulsive...IMHO, love cannot be controlled or handled,but marriage can...
-jesse_dd(紫飞鱼);
2012-5-11(#7508451@0)
yes it can. if you hold on to a man would not even like you, 100% he would not fall in love with you no matter how hard you try. if you walk away, there may be possibility that he loves you in the future if you know how to do
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508456@0)
I agree, but we are not born for the love capability and we learn it from our experience, bad or good ~~~ it's a learning curve
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508466@0)
honey, the first thing a woman should learn is not chasing after man,if he does not like you, let him go^^
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508511@0)
hey, it's nothing to do with who is chasing after who. This applies to all the people ~~~ further more, I really can't see anything wrong with a woman approaching a man
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508528@0)
then i respect your choice^^
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508532@0)
Thx, I accept our difference :)
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508545@0)
倒，说不通。好了，不吵了。there is nothing in the world i will be afraid of, i just don't need to hang on to someone who would not like me.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508576@0)
"hanging on to" 和 "try again, try harder"有很大的区别。
-jadepython(蟒);
2012-5-11(#7508600@0)
The point you make sound like you shouldn't start to like the man first before the man like you...as you assume if he doesn't chase after you means he doesn't like you...am I right? :)
-jesse_dd(紫飞鱼);
2012-5-11(#7508604@0)
that's why so many women long for love but can't have it, because men fall in love in a way different from women do^^
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508422@0)
It happens to both men and women...that's why there are so many painful love stories we all enjoy to read, but not necessarily like to experience it...:)
-jesse_dd(紫飞鱼);
2012-5-11(#7508438@0)
i am not going to further fight with you, but love a man who does not even like you would not get you the love you want, in fact, it works the other way around^^
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508450@0)
Okay...let's agree to disagree...shake hands...:)
-jesse_dd(紫飞鱼);
2012-5-11(#7508459@0)
hmm...what about the man you love?
-jadepython(蟒);
2012-5-11{71}(#7508458@0)
...if you are still capable of love. Or it is all about me me me now. ?
well, i can't accept this assumption, because i will never love a man who would not even like me. to me, it is just impossible.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508463@0)
"you WILL never love a man"...I am not sure this is something will power comes into play.
-jadepython(蟒);
2012-5-11{33}(#7508471@0)
is it a trade? or is it just ego?
come on, the most fulfilling and interesting, happy relationship is the relationship where woman owns the power,think about it. when a woman chasing after a man, pain starts
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508479@0)
That I agree, what I don't see are the distinctions between love and the rest (desire/need/ego/pride/fear...). To me, if you only have the latter, your life is not fulfilled.
-jadepython(蟒);
2012-5-11(#7508495@0)
so what's wrong with me never love a man who WOULD NOT even like me? i don't chase after men at all.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508501@0)
not love a man would not like me is something equal to self-esteem, not conditional.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508516@0)
Everything is wrong. Because one thing has nothing to do with aother. Your ego is overshadowing your heart, making it callous and indifferent.
-jadepython(蟒);
2012-5-11(#7508517@0)
what is it to do with ego? i can't understand why woman has to hold on to a man DOES NOT like her, that is not love, that is desperate.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508527@0)
the fact is, most man don't know sh*t about like or no-like, love or no-love. that initial declination is more like a reflex than a real feeling. If you give up at the first sign of setback because of your ego or pride, you will
-jadepython(蟒);
2012-5-11{85}(#7508555@0)
-1 million. you don't hold on to a person wouldn't like you, is not afraid, just because he is not worth of your energy and time.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-5-11(#7508347@0)