But it's too easy to say that, I know. Anyway, good luck.

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1. Every year the director of our group have two parties. In last summer party, one of my colleague brought his girl friend and the son(about 3 years old) of his girl friend. He introduced to others: it's my son. We're surprised, and one lady asked:" I didn't know you have a son since you joined us four years ago, where did he come from?" He said the boy was his girl friend's son. Now they married and will have their twins this July. My colleague treats the boy like his own son and play with him very well. I believe he will still love the boy even after he has his own twins.
2. My son has a buddy in the day care and I always meet the boy's mother because our offices are near. One day the lady told me that the her son is adopted. She came from Caribbean, her husband came from Malysia, and their son came from India. They loved him very much and they don't think it need to hide the truth.
I'm impressed by them. I understand that Chinese always can not treat others' children like that way. I even asked my husband " Can you do like that?" He said it's very hard. I also think so. But we will try to do better, it'll let us happier.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

一个人男人， 如果因为’爱情‘， 连亲身骨肉都不顾，
那他不是一个有良心的男人， 或者说他不是一个有人性
的人。

一个人， 能为你而对其他人无情， 将来也一定能为其他
人或事， 对你无情。

女人， 为了小家， 而对老公的行为有所限制， 很正常。
但如果对男人的爱心加以限制， 你不但害了你老公， 到
头来， 必定会害你自己？

跟一个心地善良的人白头谐老， 多么令人放心呀。

请支持你老公的爱心。