Chinese Views of American/Chinese Dating
1.She wants a visa.
2.Dating a lao wai is proof that the Chinese girl has lost her "national
spirit."
3."Aren't Chinese guys good enough for you?"
Note: Multiply the above 3 comments by 10 if the Chinese girl is Shanghainese.

The lao wai just wants sex. He will leave her as soon as he finds another girl
to have sex with.

American Views of American/Chinese Dating
1.She wants a visa.
2.The American guy is obviously too weird or inept to get American women (who
are obviously superior to foreign women), so he looks for foreign women (who
ALL want a visa).
3.The American guy has some weird Asian sexual fetish.
4.The American guy wants a subservient, submissive wife who will treat him
like the Emperor of China.
Note: If a white guy is dating an ABC, then only the sexual fetish applies --