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Thank you guys. thought no ladies would response to my last question, but I got an implication. I brought this up since.......

rawmoon(rawmoon)
One day when I was walking by the icy lake, thinking of a few leads happened in my life. I suddenly realized, everyone of my people (no exception) would ask me if I could cook. When I say NO, one said, "it is OK, it is easy to learn", one said, "wierd, women are supposed to be a cook", etc. but never (none) a whiteman asked me if I could cook. I just wonder why? I never think of asking a guy if could be a handy man, a bonus if he is ofcause. You can always find a house keeper (maybe not as cheap as a wife, but you pay high maintainence for a wife), but isn't it a soulmate a person is looking for with his heart? I am not making this issue a big deal, but doesn't hurt to give it a thought. Life is beautiful, it could be more beautiful with an openminded.
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / for men: would you ask your date if she can cook? what if the answer is NO. for women: would you continue to date the guy who asked this questions? -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1593820@0)
    • it's common to ask "do you cook?", of course not "can you?". Some guys even love to hear "no" so that they can cook some good meals to please their dates. -beentaken(无牙字); 2004-2-6 (#1594266@0)
      • waw, only heard this from whitemen, never from my own people, no wonder you were taken. ^_^ -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594393@0)
        • to please or not to please is a question :)))) -beentaken(无牙字); 2004-2-6 (#1594435@0)
    • why u ask? :-) -babyface(︽开心需要理由吗?︾); 2004-2-6 (#1594280@0)
      • Caus' I was asked so many times. and you can guess my answer -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594397@0)
    • I would stay away girls that don't cook . It's somehow very important // -isawu(coool); 2004-2-6 (#1594301@0)
      • Well, it really depends on the time, the place and PERSON. If a girl said to you she doesn't cook straightforward, you should know what she meant. -shaula(); 2004-2-6 (#1594414@0)
        • i can play fool -patpat(侃侃伐坛); 2004-2-6 (#1594445@0)
          • Absolutely. But...a fool doesn't call himself "fool". you said you can play fool, so...can you? ;-) -shaula(); 2004-2-6 (#1594451@0)
            • looks like i have to claim i AM a fool, to avoid being a fool -patpat(侃侃伐坛); 2004-2-6 (#1594461@0)
              • you don't have to, because "a fool doesn't call himself 'fool'" != "the person doesn't call himself/herself 'fool' is a fool". -shaula(); 2004-2-6 (#1594469@0)
                • right. -patpat(侃侃伐坛); 2004-2-6 (#1594477@0)
              • LOL. -babyface(︽开心需要理由吗?︾); 2004-2-7 (#1595116@0)
        • why a guy would ask this question? is it more important than others in life? eg. intellengence, passion of life, etc. -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594563@0)
          • 这是有的男同胞唯一关心的事，哪可不问 -rachelh(rachel); 2004-2-6 (#1594577@0)
          • 哈哈， 俗话说“擒男先擒胃”：) -beentaken(无牙字); 2004-2-6 (#1594580@0)
            • that is why I can not catch one for years. :(( -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594587@0)
              • a few options for you :) -beentaken(无牙字); 2004-2-6 {282} (#1594626@0)
                1. date someone good at cooking
                2. date someone fond of dining out
                3. date someone tolerant of bland food
                4. tell him you are vegetarian unable to cook meat :)
                5. if he means so much to you and happens to be picky on dishes, visit the link often and you will see :))
                GOOD LUCK
                • or I date the guy who forgets to ask this quesion. -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594661@0)
              • wow, it's just an excuse. Speaking of my own experience, everybody knew I didn't cook before I got married. Later I surprised everybody including my hubby. I'm not saying I'm a good cook now... -shaula(); 2004-2-6 {132} (#1594640@0)
                but I do feed my hubby and myself well.

                Cooking is not difficult at all.

                Everything depends on the time, the place and PERSON.
                • I agree. it should not be an issue. -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594663@0)
          • Why are you bothered if you don't like the person who asked you this question? Why are you bothered if you do like the person who asked you this question? -shaula(); 2004-2-6 (#1594603@0)
            • 真绕嘴，俺都看不明白到底怎么回事。:P -lazycat(三脚猫); 2004-2-6 (#1594643@0)
              • 我也不知道怎么写才能不饶嘴。中文：如果你不喜欢那个问你问题的人，为什么会因此烦恼？如果你喜欢那个问你问题的人，为什么会因此烦恼？（好像一样饶嘴的说。:( -shaula(); 2004-2-6 (#1594653@0)
                • I like the person until he asks this question........very soon. -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594667@0)
                  • You're supposed to be in another extreme. "don't cook" doesn't mean "not intelligent" or "doesn't have passion of life". Asking this question doesn't mean... -shaula(); 2004-2-6 {111} (#1594685@0)
                    he perfer "can cook" to "intelligent" or "have passion of life".

                    Take it easy, It's JUST a question.
    • why bother.我嫁给我老公之前在家里从来不进厨房, 不做家务的,甚至连西红柿都不知道怎么切.后来经过几年的磨练, 现在不是什么都会了. 重要的不是你会不会, 而是为了这个人,你愿不愿意:) -ingrid(樱桃); 2004-2-6 (#1594727@0)
      • Did he ask you if you could cook on the first a few dates? -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594746@0)
        • He doesn't care about that, because he can cook. haha...Remember this, guys are looking for a wife, not a chef:P -ingrid(樱桃); 2004-2-6 (#1594756@0)
          • Are you sure they are not looking for a house keeper first and then plus? -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-6 (#1594792@0)
            • pretty damn sure. -patpat(侃侃伐坛); 2004-2-6 (#1594797@0)
              • at least this is an honest one. -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-7 (#1595248@0)
    • 我的厨艺认识的人都说好,但我差不多已经几个月没做饭了,会不会是一回事,做不做是令一回事,懒人会做也不做,勤快的不会都学会了,关键是问她愿不愿意做,而不是会不会,呵呵, -flyingpet(flyingpet); 2004-2-7 (#1595235@0)
      • it sounds like the same question. My question would be why even ask? -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-7 (#1595245@0)
        • i wouldn't mind if some one ask me if i can cook, but if i can not cook, he still ask me the same question,it could means he care about this and this could be a problem for our marriage. -flyingpet(flyingpet); 2004-2-7 (#1595444@0)
    • Thank you guys. thought no ladies would response to my last question, but I got an implication. I brought this up since....... -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2004-2-7 {770} (#1595342@0)
      One day when I was walking by the icy lake, thinking of a few leads happened in my life. I suddenly realized, everyone of my people (no exception) would ask me if I could cook. When I say NO, one said, "it is OK, it is easy to learn", one said, "wierd, women are supposed to be a cook", etc. but never (none) a whiteman asked me if I could cook. I just wonder why? I never think of asking a guy if could be a handy man, a bonus if he is ofcause. You can always find a house keeper (maybe not as cheap as a wife, but you pay high maintainence for a wife), but isn't it a soulmate a person is looking for with his heart? I am not making this issue a big deal, but doesn't hurt to give it a thought. Life is beautiful, it could be more beautiful with an openminded.
      • I think it has nothing to do with the color of men. My hubby never asked me this question. "cook" or "not cook" shouldn't be an issue in relationship. If I like someone, I wouldn't mind he asking me this question.:P -lazycat(三脚猫); 2004-2-7 (#1595358@0)

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