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你会寻找初恋情人吗?

初恋难忘,因为它的抱残守缺,还有一种那年那月的感伤。然而在今天,初恋竟然也变成了一种商机。一些“寻找初恋情人”服务的广告和公司开始走俏:花1千或3千元就可以在茫茫人海中帮助找到其初恋的情人。然而,这种行为到底是满足了情感的慰藉,还是踩上了道德伦理的边界?
  现在是邂逅非常简便的时代,许多人透过网络交友,一天便与好几个人交往,根本不愁没对象,但是为什么会突然对自己青春时代的初恋情人开始涌起乡愁呢?甚至许多30几岁的人都还会去和找到的初恋情人见面呢!是不是初恋时期总是包含人生的重要因素?
  被情人搅得乱糟糟的今天,再花钱去找旧情人,值不值?人常说:“相见不如怀念”,寻找初恋情人到底有没有必要?  
  假如初恋情人真的被找回来了,我们该如何处理彼此的关系?我们是否有足够的心理准备?如果初恋情人风采依旧,而你却有美满的生活,无法与梦中的主角重温旧梦,岂不更加遗憾?如果初恋情人面目全非,岂不破坏他(她)在你心目中的美好形象?
  你真的忘得了你的初恋情人吗?有了新情人的你,还会去寻找“初恋情人”? [说出你的心理话吧]
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 你会寻找初恋情人吗?
    初恋难忘,因为它的抱残守缺,还有一种那年那月的感伤。然而在今天,初恋竟然也变成了一种商机。一些“寻找初恋情人”服务的广告和公司开始走俏:花1千或3千元就可以在茫茫人海中帮助找到其初恋的情人。然而,这种行为到底是满足了情感的慰藉,还是踩上了道德伦理的边界?
      现在是邂逅非常简便的时代,许多人透过网络交友,一天便与好几个人交往,根本不愁没对象,但是为什么会突然对自己青春时代的初恋情人开始涌起乡愁呢?甚至许多30几岁的人都还会去和找到的初恋情人见面呢!是不是初恋时期总是包含人生的重要因素?
      被情人搅得乱糟糟的今天,再花钱去找旧情人,值不值?人常说:“相见不如怀念”,寻找初恋情人到底有没有必要?  
      假如初恋情人真的被找回来了,我们该如何处理彼此的关系?我们是否有足够的心理准备?如果初恋情人风采依旧,而你却有美满的生活,无法与梦中的主角重温旧梦,岂不更加遗憾?如果初恋情人面目全非,岂不破坏他(她)在你心目中的美好形象?
      你真的忘得了你的初恋情人吗?有了新情人的你,还会去寻找“初恋情人”? [说出你的心理话吧]
    • 原创还是zt?
      • 你几时见过桃逃有过原创?
        • 信手拈来... #1588963 #1588989
        • 你。。。你歧视我!:( 哪天我原创一把,吓S你!!!
          • 哦,我怎么敢歧视你。 觉得你这个阶段的mm不该去原创什么寻找初恋情人之类话题的。
            • 你就是嫌我不够老,经历不够多 :( 我也有老的一天,早点知道,心里有术啊!
              • 不嫌,
                我这不是兜着弯夸你青春来着嘛?
                • 噢,这样子啊,领情了。:)
    • It was just a friendship, but it was really funny and I would like to share with you...
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛When I was in my senior high school, one of my classmates (a boy) liked to come to my home to chat with me. I could feel that my mother didn't like the boy's coming very much though she never talked with me about that directly, so I always kept the door of my room open to let my mother know what we were talking about. The boy did not feel comfortable about that and asked for a piece of paper and wrote something on the paper sometimes. My mother did not feel comfortable with the quietness inside and she couldn't help coming inside for some reasons from time to time. Suddenly, one day my mother talked about the boy and told me that she welcomed the boy to my home because she suddenly found that she knew the boy's father after her participation of a meeting. I knew why, she came to feel that I would be quite safe to chat with that boy.

      Of course this was not something called a "恋" at all, but just a friendship. But I do miss that friendship and that kind of talk and that period of time very much.

      (Just for fun.)更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
      • 忍不住...
        偷看了一下 :P
        • Thank you for your...
          偷看了一下.:)
          • peeking and your sharing :)