本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛It is your decision for your life. I do not encourage you to get divorced, but if you think it is the way to have a better life, read this.

1. Before you ask for a divorce, you OR your spouse must have lived in Ontario for a year before you ask for a divorce.

Since you are here less than 1 year, unless your husband had been here for more than 1 year, you have to wait before you ask for a divorce.

2. You can ask for a divorce if one of these things is true:
*You and your spouse have been apart for A YEAR (you must NOT have lived with your spouse for more than 90 days of that year)
*There is cruelty in your marriage
*One of you has committed adultery

After you ask for a divorce, and your spouse does not respond, it usually takes THREE to FOUR months for it to go through the court and become final. If you have children, or if you and your spouse disagree about something, then it will take longer.

Please notice that there are only the above three reasons that can lead to divorce in Ontario. You have to fit into one of the category. Otherwise, even if both of you agree to get divorced, you cannot get divorced. This is very tricky.

3. There are some organizations you can ask for help, such as legal clinic. Go to libray to find legal services offered in your closest legal clinic. I know that there is one at North York Center subway station. You can make a call for appoinment. They offer 30 minutes free consulting.

Last but not least, I wish you happy. Just cool down and think it over and over before you make the final decision.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

你们在申请移民时和政府签的约并没有说担保人要支付一笔特定的保证费。政府的出发点是对担保人和被担保人双方施压，避免他们成为政府福利的负担。

担保人确实要照顾被担保人的基本生活。但这不一定意味着给钱。他可以为你买好食品和日常用品，这样也算做到了担保的责任。

作为被担保人，你也已经签字同意尽一切努力负担自己的基本生活。你不可能一边读书一边说你尽了最大努力。到时候你的帐单还得你自己付。

如果你回国的话，不知道还能不能申请加拿大的福利？只要不花政府的钱，它是不管的。

上面说的是移民法规里的内容。至于赡养费，那和移民法好像没有关系。是另外的法律管辖的。我就不懂了。

内容仅供参考，不是法律意见。