还是需要理解和包容。看那篇八卦Elton John和他的年轻15岁的配偶，俺们的多伦多老乡有感。他出自多伦多父母双全，父母恩爱的家庭。因为自己的异性恋无法继续，明确自己的性取向，原生家庭无法接受，自己觉得shame，只好远走他乡。还好碰到Elton John。

组建了一个美好的家庭。

Elton John之前也异性恋过。然后同性了。和多伦多老乡相恋多年后，结婚了，再有俩个孩子。

多伦多老乡说，

"I grew up in a wonderfully happy, balanced household, with two other brothers and a mother and father who were still in love. I'd had such a positive experience at home, I wanted to live up to that ideal. But I couldn't do it. I had a lot of failed relationships, a lot of unhappiness, a lot of shame and embarrassment, bad self-image stuff. I had to get away,"